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"The Past is in front of us and the future is behind us"
In the West we are linguistically wired to see time on a continuum where the future is something that is in-front of us and the past is...

Ruth Parchment
Feb 19, 20201 min read


Different types of suffering coexist
Different types of suffering coexist. It's unhelpful when we rank one against the other and tell someone who is suffering that, "others...

Ruth Parchment
Feb 19, 20201 min read


The link between CBT and neuroplasticity
Neuroplasticity is the 'muscle building' part of the brain; With every repetition of a thought or emotion, we reinforce a neural pathway

Ruth Parchment
Feb 1, 20201 min read


Telling People to Forgive is Gaslighting in Disguise.
I am honestly astounded, I never expected this article to be as popular as it has been! 😲It's great to see the conversations and...

Ruth Parchment
Jan 24, 20201 min read


Social Anxiety doesn't always Look how we Think
I really enjoy working with social anxiety. Its great when socially anxious individuals can learn to let go of fear of judgement and express

Ruth Parchment
Jan 19, 20201 min read


Do you want to be judge or a learner?
At every instance you have a choice. You can think of a situation as a 'Judge' or as a 'Learner'. Whilst one provides growth, flexibility an

Ruth Parchment
Jan 12, 20201 min read


Planet Mindful Magazine Article on Perfectionism published!
An article that I wrote about perfectionism was published in Planet Mindful Magazine (January Issue 8) which is sold online and Waitrose.

Ruth Parchment
Dec 11, 20191 min read


Why Do We Trigger Each Other in Close Relationships?
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy sees our thoughts, feelings and behaviors as significant in maintaining difficulties. I often work with people

Ruth Parchment
Nov 13, 20191 min read


Noticing our Negative Unconscious Thoughts (NUTS) can help us move towards from our values.
Noticing our Negative Unconscious Thoughts (NUTS) can help us move towards our value. From ActAuntie.com a website about ACT.

Ruth Parchment
Oct 15, 20190 min read


Your Trauma is Valid
Your trauma is valid. Your pain matters. Your experience matters. Your healing matters. And nothing and no one can take that away.

Ruth Parchment
Oct 7, 20190 min read


Emotional Awareness: Why its important and how to build it.
A common difficulty that I encounter as a therapist is challenges that many individuals face when it comes to emotions. There’s often, fear

Ruth Parchment
Sep 16, 20193 min read


Self-doubt can actually help you bloom — and it all starts with how you talk to
A simple shift in language can alter your perceptions and experiences of a difficulty. "I notice..." allows a curious stance which makes roo

Ruth Parchment
Sep 16, 20191 min read
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