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Do you want to be judge or a learner?
At every instance you have a choice. You can think of a situation as a 'Judge' or as a 'Learner'. Whilst one provides growth, flexibility an

Ruth Parchment
Jan 12, 20201 min read
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Planet Mindful Magazine Article on Perfectionism published!
An article that I wrote about perfectionism was published in Planet Mindful Magazine (January Issue 8) which is sold online and Waitrose.

Ruth Parchment
Dec 11, 20191 min read
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Why Do We Trigger Each Other in Close Relationships?
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy sees our thoughts, feelings and behaviors as significant in maintaining difficulties. I often work with people

Ruth Parchment
Nov 13, 20191 min read
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Noticing our Negative Unconscious Thoughts (NUTS) can help us move towards from our values.
Noticing our Negative Unconscious Thoughts (NUTS) can help us move towards our value. From ActAuntie.com a website about ACT.

Ruth Parchment
Oct 15, 20190 min read
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Your Trauma is Valid
Your trauma is valid. Your pain matters. Your experience matters. Your healing matters. And nothing and no one can take that away.

Ruth Parchment
Oct 7, 20190 min read
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Emotional Awareness: Why its important and how to build it.
A common difficulty that I encounter as a therapist is challenges that many individuals face when it comes to emotions. There’s often, fear

Ruth Parchment
Sep 16, 20193 min read
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Self-doubt can actually help you bloom — and it all starts with how you talk to
A simple shift in language can alter your perceptions and experiences of a difficulty. "I notice..." allows a curious stance which makes roo

Ruth Parchment
Sep 16, 20191 min read
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What’s Wrong With Being a Perfectionist?
To a point, perfectionism can help us focus and do a job well; but, perfectionism can also stop us from trying in the first place

Ruth Parchment
Aug 19, 20191 min read
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Why its more helpful to “rise in love” rather than “fall in love”
Why its more helpful to “rise in love” rather than “fall in love

Ruth Parchment
May 30, 20195 min read
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Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, OCD, BPD... are so much more than their narrow depictions
Narrow depictions of these difficulties are are hindrance rather than help. Follow me on Instagram and facebook.

Ruth Parchment
Apr 26, 20191 min read
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The 3 Destructive Features of Clinical Perfectionism
We have all at some point observed perfectionism, in others or perhaps in ourselves; high exacting standards and disappointment when they...

Ruth Parchment
Apr 24, 20193 min read
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The difference between support and “toxic positivity”
Feeling supported is key in helping people through difficult and distressing times; how support is given can make a significant...

Ruth Parchment
Apr 6, 20191 min read
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